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3 kinds of Love.

Note : these stages of Love can change in life.

1 Love as a feeling.

Purely judged by your feelings. Its normally happens when first met.

This kind of love is very common. Easy come, easy goes.

2. Love as a choice

You have chosen to share your life with, will say yes to marriage. But sometime external beauties, happiness (money or positions) and pride still influence these love. Possible to break relations if situations changes.

3. Love as a soul

Very rare and indeed the most beautiful love. Will do self sacrifice, will not be affected by physical appearances or hardships.

Which stage are you?

God created us equally in terms of time. All of us have 24 hours a day, no one is getting more or less. The journey through this time is called LIFE, the result is called DESTINY. Destiny influences events in our lives, such as decisions we make, who we spend our lives with.

What we think, say, do, action, behave will be our destiny.

Your destiny is a result from your own decisions making in life.

Some people trying to be like someone else. Their thoughts are also someone else’s opinions, their lives a mimicry, their passions a quotation.

Soon they become two faces (maybe more) and suffer from self identity crisis.

Ask yourself this: if I am in an island, alone, will I do what I am doing now?

Say what you feel, dare to show your true color

Be yourself because there are too many other people.

Take a closer look at these words:

An achiever is a doer, not dreamer.
They can fail too, but they see failure is a process to success,
so achiever keeps on going. Others sees failure as dead-end.

TRIUMPH is a TRY with UMPH (motivation and eagerness)

Your life, your decision, you can have either,

Opportunity is now here
or
Opportunity is nowhere.

Your choice, think about it.

Strange fact, but true. It is easier for most people to forgive an enemy than to forgive a friend.

Anger and ego makes many people reluctant to forgive because they feel "lower" in self pride which actually the opposite.

Most people have opposite understanding of the real truth for being “lower or higher"

Some people can forgive, but they cannot forget.

Hate is easy, but Love takes courage.

If you feel hurt and want to revenge, please remember that:

FORGIVENESS is the best REVENGE!

This is just my personal view on friendship.
It is easier to make friends when you are younger, more naive, no intention on
personal gains. As you grow older you will make friends, but harder to find a
true friends.
We have many kinds of friends, such as happy/fun friends, ass-lick friends, 2
faces friends, work friends, and many more.

Sure you will have lots of friends but are they true friends?

When you are rich, famous, good looking, influential and maybe other important
positions that you are. It is a blessing but also a curse, because true friends
are even harder to find. Throw away all those, will your friends still around?

True friends can be found easier in these 3 situations:
1. Schools - reason: innocent
2. Prison - reason: no material/financial gain
3. War - reason: no personal gain intention

it’s just my personal view and sometimes the above may not be true.

Here are a few words to sum up:

• To
  have a friend, you should act and be as one.
• It is easier to make enemies than
  friends.
  
• True friendship is really a TREASURE.   

Life is too short,
have as much fun as you wish.

Life is too short, have fun while you can.

Life
is too short, be yourself not others.

Life is too short, don’t stress everyday.

Life is too short, so take chances.

Life is too short, enjoy your life.

Life is
too short, don’t waste it.

So? Live WELL!

Most people understanding of happiness is by being successful.

" Key to success… Research your idea, Plan for success, Expect success
and last just do it! It amazes me how many people skip the last step"

Be a Doer not Dreamer.
 

Simple definition of Success is actually BALANCED of Health, Financial and Love
(family).

There is never enough of achievements and dream, it will always demand more in
time. You have to know and setup what and when is enough.

Wise man knows his limitation. 
 

Have a nice day

Another day has passed, as you grew older, days seem to pass quicker.

I make mistakes like everyone, sometimes silly mistakes, but I try to make my life better by learning from mistakes.

It okay to make mistakes, we are human, just don’t do the same mistakes again.

Don’t make your life like a Xerox. Meaning you do repeatedly over and over the same mistakes. Make our life better from learning from our mistakes and improve.

My motto is simple. It okay to make mistakes, just don’t do the same mistakes again. Today has to be better than yesterday and so is tomorrow have to be better than today.

It’s okay to be sad, it’s okay to cry when you are down. Just don’t over do it.

At the end of the day, you will find the lights.